The past week or so seems to have been a blur. Part of the family was here for a few days, so we were very busy doing family activities. I love having the family "home" with me even if it is just for a few days, and even if some of the family could not be here. I will update you with some of our activities as soon as I get photos downloaded.
As has most of the country, we've been dealing with heat. In this part of the country, we don't have to deal with humidity along with the heat, but we are in the middle of a drought. I've commented that it is so hot that the only things growing are the weeds. Anyway, that is how it seemed whenever I looked out at my yard and garden while the kids and grandkids were here. The weeds had to just keep growing, because this grandma was not going to pull weeds when she had grandchildren around to enjoy.
Being surrounded by family has a way of making me feel happy and complete. In fact, I am never quite as happy as I am when I am surrounded by my children and grandchildren. I think the visits from the past week came at just the right time. I was ready for some fun times, some joy, some laughter, and some activity around the house.
I know the visit was difficult for my children in many ways. Julie was not here to join in the fun. I am sure "the presence of her absence" seemed to be there, just below the surface, for us all at times. Hopefully the time was also healing, restorative, and memorable for those who could be here at "home." New memories were made. New photos were taken. Many great bonding opportunities between cousins occurred. We missed the ones who were not here due to work and busy schedules.
It was terribly hot while everyone was here, but we survived with the help of the A/C and fans throughout the house.
Now, they've all gone home. I spent Monday washing many loads of sheets and towels. Today, I tackled the weeds. One flower bed is looking much better.
We also had the A/C people here today working on an update to the system. Our multi-level home has never had a heating/cooling system that adequately heated or cooled the upstairs where all the bedrooms are. When we were working, I don't think it bothered us as much because we weren't home. Now, my husband and I each have a study on the second floor. Our bedroom is on the same level. We have been miserable in our studies on a cold day and on a hot day. Finally this summer, I decided I had had enough. It was time to make some changes in our system.
I am sitting in my study, and I am cool. It is 77.9 degrees in our bedroom at 4:15 p.m. It is 95 degrees outside. It is never this cool up here in the late afternoon. I am looking forward to not seeing 80 degrees register on the thermostat when I go to bed tonight!
Today, after enjoying coffee and breakfast with my hubby on the back deck, followed by working in the garden and enjoying a nice lunch my hubby cooked for me (hot dogs from the microwave), I said to my husband, "It is good to be readjusting to retirement again." He agreed. It is going to be even better now with our update to the heating/cooling system.
I'm in the zone. I'm cool. I'm pain free (for a few days anyway). After a lecture from my doctor, my therapist, my husband, and my dear sweet daughter Amy, I am also trying to manage my stress better. Thanks, Amy. You always seem to have just the right word at just the right time for me. It is good to be in the zone.